Thursday, November 19, 2009

Girls, how young when you started to healthily flirt and fool around?

Okay, Yahoo audience, please, I seriously need some help on this one. I am an adult male. I tutor high school and college students. I went to a family's house yesterday to tutor their high-school sons. They have a cute sister. She is under-aged, but she was unmistakably flirting with me all over the place.





Okay, so here's my problem. I am definitely intrigued by this girl and flattered by her attention. I'd like to flirt and maybe fool around. But I don't want to hurt her!





When we think of an adult male and a minor girl, our first reaction is "Ew, gross. child molester!" BUT ... get real. Seriously, this kind of flirting must happen all the time. But I guess it's never quite happened to me before, and that's why I'm confused.





So! Let me ask you. Girls ... when did you start to flirt with an adult male? When did you start to fool around a little bit? Was it healthy for you? Any advice?





I will wait for your responses.

Girls, how young when you started to healthily flirt and fool around?
this is normal, at certain stage in their lives girls begin to become more aware of their feminine charms and sexuality and they're dying to ''test'' them. it doesn't mean they necessarily want anything from a guy, i'd say they're just trying to experiment with the reactions they provoke in guys and prove their attractiveness to themselves. i did that when i was fifteen or sixteen, it helped me learn a lot of things and it was very fun!
Reply:Flirting and actually acting on it are 2 complete different things, she is learning to use flirting as a skill to get male attention.. it doesn't mean she expects you to act on it. If she is a minor don't even think about it.. you say your a tutor.. then you should know your limits dont see how you can be confused about your boundaires. Its ok to be flattered but if you are really thinking on acting on it then you should not be around kids, you should get help!
Reply:not yet... and im 15 almost 16. although im not really "normal"cuz i havent been in co ed school until two years ago so i have no clue how to act around guys haha how sad is that..erm anyways...





it kinda depends how young that girl is...%26amp;%26amp; also maybe you should think about what the parents might think if they find out youre flirting with their lil girl..like i know you arent a molester or anything but theyd prolly be protective of their kid and think you started flirting with the girl first or sth even though you didnt/.and that could cause problems





best of luck~~
Reply:Be VERY CAREFUL...Thats all I really have to say!
Reply:be careful





but i started likee 10?





lol





not like really adults..just 17 yr olds and stuff





and i had a crush on a 16 yr old when i was 3=S





lol
Reply:i started to lick carpet at around 7.
Reply:i was always a little flirt lol...i had my first kiss at age 12 or 13...lost my virginity at 18...i think thats a good age to start but these kids today doing crap at like 9 and 10 is just disgusting!

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