How do i feel more attracted to my wife?

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I'll try to explain this... 1st how i feel, before we got married she was a babe!she made sure she made me fall for her:-) She was starting hinting bout marrige and i considired it, she's hot, she's faithfull, addorable..after a while we got married (dated about 3 years). I always help her, be a gentelman...err try to be perfect husband. Slowly she started getting comfortable with the new life, no need to keep me hers, i just had to be hers. No need dress sexy (t-shirts,plain jeans,sneakers at work,home,everywear). Putting on a lot of weight. Making hair nice. I tell her of my sexual needs, but i gues if she doesnt want to, and i cant force her. Being less attractive than what she was my sex drive go low, when we do it i just feel i have to make her enjoy it, somtimes i dont reach climax( she does). I started having thoughts of cheating( which i wont). I love her very much!!!. I'm hoping i im the problem so any advice is good. Be honest..

How do i feel more attracted to my wife?
Buy her some sexy lingerie, which is a huge hint and ask her to wear it. Make a romantic night out. Make sure you go somewhere where you both have to dress up. Do something different, make love somewhere new. Try new things.
Reply:Moron-- Grow the hell up!
Reply:This is unusual, the husband, asking for help. It shows that you really want things to work out for your marriage. You mentioned that you've tried talking to her about your sexual desires, but there are a couple of things that may help. Surprise her with what she'd least expect from you regarding this situation, tell her honestly how you feel without holding back. Let her know some of what you just said, she use to care about her appearance which was appreciated by you because she was so HOT. Make an effort to build her self esteem again. Let her know that how much you want to experiment sexually with her and how much you desire her and want the same from her. Offer to go shopping with her to buy some nice nighties (sexual attire). Just wait till bed time and let her know that you want to talk about something that really has to be said so things won't go sour with your marriage. Be honest, and if she acts indifferent, then you need to make other decisions which may be harder to deal with for your happiness. Hopefully, she will be receptive to listen.
Reply:talk to her. maybe ask her if she wants to start working out with you. go for a morning jog or something. start making shopping dates together and buy her some hot clothes, take her to get her hair done. you might have to be somewhat sneaky. i dont know what women would turn down all that.
Reply:1ST OF ALL IF HER WEIGT IS A BOTHER TO YOU THEN DO YOU REALLY LOVE HER I GAIN WEIGHT AFTER THREE KIDS IN 4 YRS BUT MY HUSBAND NEVER STOPPED HAVING A DESIRE FOR ME HE DID BUY ME PRETTY NIGHTYS AND TOOK ME OUT ON DATES AND BOUGHT ME BEAUTIFUL OUTFITS AND GAVE ME GIFT CERT TO GO GET MY HAIR DONE AND NAILS DONE AND THAT MADE ME WANT TO DO WHAT EVER HE ENJOYED BUT HE NEVER LET THE WEIGHT GET IN THE WAY SOMETIMES IT BOTHERED ME AND HE TOLD ME HE LOVE ME AND THAT IT DIDNT MATTER ITS TAKEN ME A FEW YRS BUT IM STARTING TO DROP THE LBS AND AT THE AGE OF 48 I AM IN BETTER SHAPE AND FILL BETTER THAN I DID IN MY 20S I THINK OF IT LIKE THIS GOD GIVES YOU THE DESIRES OF YOUR HEART BUT SOMETIME YOU JUST HAVE TO WAIT!
Reply:i am going to be 110% honest with you.... my husband thinks i am sexy in anything i wear.....honestly.....i am a bank teller, so i have to dress professionally everyday for work....the second i walk in the door, he tells me how sexy i look, then, after being dressed up for 10+ hrs., i always come home and through on jeans, again i still has the urge to grab my booty every time i walk past him....even after gaining 40 lbs...most of which i have recently lost...he still thought i was sexy....


and lets face it, sometimes us woman are just not in the mood...so a few nights ago, i didn't feel like doing any thing but going to sleep.. So i put on a t-shirt and some old bagging sweats, and can not even get into the bed with out him jumping on me....


The moral of this story, maybe its just you, if you love her, you lover her, no matter what, what she looks like, what she wears, maybe go to the store and buy her some sexy lingerie, or get her a gift certificate at a spa, to get a make over and hair do, take out to buy a new outfit and go out to a nice restaurant, this way, maybe she will take the hint a Lil, with out you coming right out and telling her that you are not attracted to her....and please....if you have to come right out and tell her, do it, but please try to fix it....don't just go out and cheat!!!
Reply:try telling her how your feel, tell her that you love her but you really wished she would take a lil more effort to look good for you. Tell her you know somethimes she gets busy and you are not asking her to be model perfect but to put forth an effort and if she does make sure you tell her how good she looks.

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